It is not just about giving, it is about receiving as well. If you are thinking, “Receiving? Say thank you!,” it is not that easy. As anticipated, when you go home for the holidays, you are bound to run into someone you know. I ran into an acquaintance from grad school. While we don’t know each other well, we had shared enough classes together to stop and say, “Hello.” Friendly banter since we don’t know anything personal about one another – how are you? do you have a job? Awkward pause…”Well, you look good!” she says. “Thank you!” I reply. And then, more awkward silence. And finally I said, “So do you!” but I was too late and that was obvious. We parted ways and I let out a sigh of relief that I was free from the small talk.